Even in the eyes of common sense, the increase in inflation is not a hindrance in one marriage and not in four marriages.
Anyway, it is a reasonable thing that if inflation is increasing, it is increasing in favor of everyone. Therefore, if inflation etc. If they start running away from one or several marriages out of fear, then those women whom these women would have taken as their wives and become sponsors for their clothes, clothing and food, etc. It will fall on the parents and sometimes a single father will have to bear the responsibilities such as clothing, education and medical treatment of his five, five, six or six daughters.
Although he does not have the least worldly interest in these daughters, it is more filmic to burden him with these expenses than to burden the young men who have many tangible and tangible profits from these women as wives. And interests are related, for example, birth and reproduction, sexual satisfaction, service, intimacy and love, etc. For this reason, when she was born, the expenses will be incurred on her, now the important thing to consider is who should pay this expense, Shariat says that when a girl becomes an adult, neither her father nor her father is responsible for her expenses.
It should be given not to the girl herself, but to the young man who has full earning potential due to stepping on the threshold of youth and has many religious and worldly interests associated with this girl. On the contrary, those who oppose marriage say that all these expenses should be paid to the old fathers of the girls in this era of inflation, so that when the girls are born, their fathers start mourning their brothers with the idea of old age, or the girl gets a job. But he should be forced to take up his own responsibilities, so why is there a need for more than one marriage in the office? 42
Such an atmosphere of indecency and shame should be created that four marriages on the one hand, even if there is one marriage, the ritual will end and on the other hand, by usurping the jobs of women, the unemployment of men will further increase and they will be confined to bed.
It seems to eat the earnings of lying women so that even after acquiring wealth, they are not ready to support these women. Remember that it is a recognized fact that it is easier for a person who has a woman as his wife to whom many obvious and even profitable things are associated, than it is for him to spend on that woman (i.e. father and (brothers) whose profits are not associated with these women. The advice to avoid marriage due to inflation and poverty is a foolish wish, so it is a strange and offensive logic to stop such a young man from providing financial support for one or multiple marriages by making a noise about inflation and poverty, who is responsible for all the financial support of these women by nature. She wants to make a dowry and on the other hand, poverty and inflation should not be considered in favor of the parents of the girls, on whom nature is ready to put any kind of responsibility even after the marriage of these girls after puberty. Remember... if a young man, no matter how poor he is, gets a relationship with a woman whose father is ready to give his daughter to him for any reason, then to advise such a young man that there is a period of inflation. Where will you meet the expenses?
Ayamore is akin to the cruelty of Hillar and his own father as well as the most foolish kind of benevolence towards the nation. It is the wazifa and responsibility of the girl or her father to see whether the prospective son-in-law will be able to pay the proper maintenance of the girl after making her a wife or not. There is more oppression on the woman, but the fact is that the law has also prevented the girl's father from delaying the marriage due to the poverty of the expected son-in-law and he has also been prevented from doing so with more words and they are It has been suggested that if a boy has a good family and good morals, keeping the bride's house just because of his poverty and unnecessarily delaying his marriage just because of this is not acceptable in the eyes of Shariat.
God has promised that He will bless you in wealth. Consider that it is not Shariah-like for the girl and her father to be overly concerned in this matter. Forbid him by saying that from where will you meet the expenses? "And to think of the poverty of the boy on this occasion, but on the other hand, as a result of this refusal, the girl's parents will have some difficulty in finding a son-in-law again, and the girl's father will have to feed his four or five girls, including this girl. Why the need for more than one marriage? 43
In this era of inflation related to treatment and education, keeping a complete eye on all the things that are financially responsible or have to bear, isn't it equivalent to a foolish kind of benevolence....?
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: If a sermon is given to you by someone who is devoted to his religion and his people, then marry him. (Tirmidhi) Translation: The Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: When someone sends you a message of marriage with whom you are satisfied with his religion and morals, accept his message and marry your daughters and sisters to him. If you do that, there will be a lot of mischief and a lot of mischief in the land. An incident of a young man with a income of five thousand. There is a marriage. I said why after five years? You are already employed, Masha Allah. Maulvi Sahib said...! What are you talking about?..... Have you lived in this world?..... Five What happens in a thousand? Then they said that it is difficult to have one wife in this age, you say that four are allowed in Islam, for example, suppose that if I add my fiance to this income. With us, every week after marriage, the wife has to eat at McDonald's at least once, a new couple in every event... Never And said: Honorable! I submitted to you that four are allowed in Islam and poverty does not prevent marriage, but you took our point as incomplete.
Sender who has to be fed at McDonald's every month, has to get a new pair made for him on the occasion of every event, if he sneezes three times continuously and without any speed breaker, he has to go to Aga Khan Hospital for a medical check-up. .. If the pregnancy remains, through various laboratory tests, one is constantly wondering and wondering that the ratio of various vitamins in the blood is the standard ratio in the blood of "standard health women" of "standard nations". According to ' ' or not ... ? And until the ability to meet these expenses is not created, the marriage should be postponed for up to five years....?
Servants of God...! Look at your chador and spread your feet, if your monthly income is five thousand, then find a girl for marriage whose father's income is two and a half thousand, so that he has not even seen the look of McDonald's, so such a girl is with you. She will be happy, and then there is a promise from Allah that through the blessing of marriage, Allah will give blessings in wealth, so later on, whenever Allah expands his wealth, his desire for marriage with someone with "Nakhra" will also be fulfilled. do it .
Why the need for more than one marriage? 44
I silenced them by answering why a young man would not settle for a low quality girl, but since polygamy is not the norm, the result is that when it is firmly established in the mind of today's young man that Marriage is to be done only once in a lifetime, so think that when the sacrificial goat is used once a year, how much is done to select it and to check its color and lineage, then the wife who Instead of a year, one has to choose only once in the whole life and its importance is more than the sacrificial goat anyway, so how can the young man have low standards in choosing this wife.
Therefore, today the young people and their parents are not ready to marry a divorcee or a widow for their children, but they are not willing to marry people with less financial status than themselves and consider it as cutting off their nose in the society. are And in this regard, the situation of the youth is that their residence is in a mosquito colony or a buffalo colony and even if the income is very low, but the desire is that the girl is from Defense or Clifton, then it would be appropriate and then one about this. By setting special criteria, they keep delaying the marriage and then run away from the marriage to fulfill their sexual desire. That the "simple people" of the nation are not aware of these conditions, but such conditions are not hidden from those who are aware of the conditions of the nation, then if such young people are asked to marry, they stop crying of poverty and start objecting that this Who will give us relationship in income?
And then the stories start to be told that such and such a place belonged to Try, but the girl's father, instead of saying "yes" to the salary, has been begging for six months continuously. In the eyes of the Sharia, poverty is the reason for making marriage difficult. According to the Qur'an, Hadith, Sahaba and jurists, Islam is unusually "sensitive" in the matter of marriage compared to other religions, and the biggest obstacle to marriage is poverty. ' is understood, therefore Islam has uprooted this ideology with all its force by shaking the foundation of the ideas of those who consider poverty as an obstacle in the way of marriage through clear specifications.
Qur'an, Allah Almighty said: (And those who are unmarried among you ... if they are righteous, Allah will bless them from grace) (Al-Nur) Translation: Allah Almighty says: Marry those among you who are unmarried, and your slaves need more than one marriage. Why ? 45
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