5 Unexpected Perks of Dating a Highly Sensitive Person
Many people assume that highly sensitive people are just like everyone else, but different, with no real differences to speak of. However, there are in fact many perks of dating a highly sensitive person that you can enjoy – if you know what to look out for and how to adjust your relationship accordingly. Here are five unexpected perks of dating a highly sensitive person.
1) They Love to Listen
One of the best things about dating a highly sensitive person is that they love to listen. They're patient and interested in hearing your stories, thoughts, and feelings. This can be extremely helpful when you need to vent or just want to talk about something important. It's also nice because these people are very observant and intuitive. If you are feeling down or just not yourself, they will notice it right away. They'll ask if everything is okay and will want to know what's going on with you. You don't have to feel like there's anything wrong with being sad sometimes - everyone has bad days now and then! HSPs know this and will be there for you during those times. You may find that you end up spending a lot more time talking than doing other activities at first. That's totally fine though; talking should always come first. After all, having someone who listens and cares about what you have to say is one of the most valuable traits someone could have. Don't be afraid to take advantage of their kind nature. HSPs might even share some of their own personal struggles with you as well. Maybe they've been through something similar or maybe they're just looking for someone to confide in. Either way, it feels good knowing that you have an understanding ear waiting for you whenever you need them the most. When There's Something Important Going On: One of the perks of dating a highly sensitive person is that they tend to pay attention when there's something important going on. They'll notice major changes in mood, weight, or energy levels before anyone else does. Whether it means asking questions and trying to figure out what happened or simply holding you while you cry and try to get your bearings back again, HSPs will do whatever they can to help you get back on track. We may not always know exactly how we got here (or how to get out), but we still care enough about you that we'll try our hardest anyway. Loving Conversations: In addition to making great listeners, highly sensitive people make for amazing conversationalists too. You'll never run out of topics to discuss with an HSP. Not only are they easy to talk to, but they're also very thoughtful in their responses. I once told my boyfriend that I was excited about starting graduate school soon and he took the time to find me research articles related to education policy. He wanted me to have as much information as possible so I would be able to make a decision based on facts rather than assumptions. Who knew such a simple conversation would lead us down such a deep rabbit hole? Another perk of dating an HSP is that they understand you better than anyone else could ever hope too. These individuals deeply empathize with others and therefore pick up on emotions more quickly than most people do. This is a great quality to have in a partner because they will often be there for you when you need them the most. They Are Always Around To Listen: No matter what's going on, HSPs will always be around to listen. You won't have to go searching for them or call repeatedly before they finally answer the phone. These people prioritize relationships and friendships, which means that they'll be invested in yours. You'll have a support system that you didn't know you needed until it came along. HSPs are the perfect people to have in your life and you're lucky to have found them. They'll be there for you, no matter what. They're the type of people who will listen to your problems and be there to comfort you when you need it the most. You'll always have someone to lean on, especially when they're the person that you lean on the most.
2) They Don’t Hesitate to Show Affection
Highly sensitive people are often more in touch with their emotions than others. As a result, they’re usually quick to show affection. They may not say I love you as often as some people, but their actions will often speak louder than words.
2. They’re Great Listeners (four sentences): If you’re dating a highly sensitive person, chances are they’re an excellent listener. They’re not only good at listening, but they’re also good at understanding what you’re saying. This can be extremely helpful when you need someone to talk to about your problems. It can be hard for some people to open up and talk about things that bother them, but it’s never a problem for a HSP. In fact, they're probably one of the best listeners out there. Not only do they listen well, but they also know how to interpret what you're telling them. When we sometimes struggle to articulate our thoughts or feelings and come across as unclear, this trait can be extremely beneficial. Not only does it mean you'll have someone who listens intently and responds accordingly, but who has the intelligence to understand everything you're trying to say without having to ask for clarification.
1) High sensitivity doesn't necessarily mean over-sensitive: Some people think highly sensitive people are over-sensitive - which is actually a misconception! While these individuals do react strongly and tend to have strong reactions or high levels of empathy compared with other personality types - that doesn't make them over-sensitive because many highly sensitive traits benefit those around them. The benefits of being a highly sensitive person range from being aware of subtleties that others miss to being able to communicate openly and confidently. Of course, everyone has their own personal pros and cons of being a highly sensitive person, but these five perks should provide food for thought if you’ve been considering dating one. And hey, even if you don't go on any dates with a HSP anytime soon, just knowing they exist could help give you peace of mind in moments where life seems particularly difficult. You might find yourself saying thank goodness every time you find out someone else is experiencing something like you did. You may find relief from connecting with other people going through similar things. Knowing that someone understands you means so much, and you may find comfort in finally feeling understood. That's why it's so important to share your experience with others so they know that they're not alone either. One thing to keep in mind is that many people feel shame for being highly sensitive. A common belief is that highly sensitive equals overly emotional. However, the truth couldn't be further from this idea. These individuals aren't weak; instead, they offer amazing gifts to those around them - gifts that can potentially change lives forever.
3) They Are Empathetic
One of the best things about dating a highly sensitive person is that they are incredibly empathetic. They feel what you feel and they want to make sure that you are always happy and comfortable. This can be great when you're having a bad day and need someone to just listen, or if you want to talk about your feelings. They will always be there for you, ready to lend a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. They Can Read You Like A Book: For people who have trouble expressing their emotions or feeling in general, this can be something that's really helpful. HSPs are intuitive people and know how to read others well because they do it so often themselves. They can tell what you need without even asking! All you have to do is look at them and they already know what you're thinking. They'll never say anything hurtful out loud (although sometimes it might seem like they did). If you give them the opportunity, they'll come up with some insightful words for any situation - no matter how much time passes between conversations. They are endlessly patient, too. And while they may not fully understand everything you say, they will always be right there trying to help. They Know How To Take Care Of Themselves: There are many reasons why HSPs take care of themselves more than other people. Partially because they need time alone as opposed to socializing all the time and partly because emotionally-sensitive people have better self-awareness. Whatever the reason may be, it doesn't change the fact that one perk of dating a HSP is knowing that they'll take care of themselves before anyone else does. They Are Very Understanding: Emotional sensitivity has its downsides, but for most part it comes with perks too! When you're dating a HSP, you get somebody who listens to your problems and understands where you're coming from. You also get somebody who cares about themselves enough to take care of themselves before anybody else does. It's true that HSPs need their own space every now and then, but what they lack in quantity they make up for in quality.
4) They Are Good at Taking Care of People
When you date a highly sensitive person, you are dating someone who is in tune with other people's emotions. They can often tell when something is wrong, even if you don't say anything. This makes them great at taking care of people. And, they are usually more than happy to do so. As long as you give them the tools and support they need, your sensitive partner will make an excellent caregiver. You'll have someone there for you no matter what happens. That deep sense of empathy also means that HSPs might know exactly how to help you through difficult times. They Listen Very Well: Those same heightened senses mean that your sensitive partner has very finely tuned listening skills. It's like being able to use a magnifying glass on conversations; they notice things about what you're saying that others might not see. In return, it means that they will listen carefully and attentively while you talk about what's going on in your life or vent about a difficult day. Sometimes we all just need someone to be present and show us that they care, which is something a sensitive partner excels at. They Notice All the Little Details: There's no question that HSPs are detail-oriented people. Whether it's noticing what type of food you're eating or remembering where you put your keys yesterday, this trait translates well into relationships too.
A highly sensitive person knows what you want before you ask for it (whether it's pizza for dinner or a new book). Even though this might seem like a small thing to some people, having their partners' needs met without needing to ask can be really fulfilling. They Are Good With Their Hands: If getting massages from their significant other sounds good to you then consider yourself lucky! I think most people would agree that touch is one of the best ways to feel connected to another person, and high sensitivity extends to feeling connected via touch. Highly sensitive partners love giving and receiving massages because they get such satisfaction out of connecting with you in this way. The ability to understand how another person feels by looking at them - physically or emotionally - is another talent HSPs possess. It might sound strange but many introverts have commented on how much they appreciate it when their partners can read them like a book without words because it helps keep unnecessary communication down.
5) They are Great at Keeping Secrets
We all know that person who can't keep a secret to save their life. Well, you can rest assured that your secrets are safe with a highly sensitive person. They understand the importance of discretion and will never betray your trust. You will never have to worry about them being too embarrassed or worried about offending someone if they accidentally say something wrong in public. They would much rather do what is right than what is socially acceptable.
It's Easy to Find Common Ground: Relationships require communication and mutual understanding, but it is sometimes difficult for those not as emotionally intense to find common ground with someone who feels things more deeply than they do. Highly sensitive people live their lives on a deeper level which means there's less room for miscommunication or misunderstanding between you two.
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