According to the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), what do you do for the sake of chastity and chastity and increase in family?
These are the same signs in marriage. This will lead to more chastity, increase in children and family, so thinking of such things, God willing, if anyone in our society thinks of another marriage, then the same father who gave his son a lot of money in his wealth happily.
The mother and sister who, at the request of their son and brother, have been searching day and night for a "silver" wife for him, eagerly seeking relationships, brother and family.
Other people and friends from all over the world, all of you are shocked to hear the intention of this person's second marriage ... and the person who is scared ... maybe someone in the house will have a heart attack on the expression of this intention.
Don't get upset or God-fearing wife doesn't faint. Parents, brothers, sisters and wives, etc., show that they are just gossiping, because they do not think that any member of their family can make such an ugly joke.
But when he begins to believe that this proper fit of his family has become very inappropriate, and that he intends to have another marriage with his first wife and children, then what would the family members do?
As soon as they hear this, their attitudes change, they start receiving threats from the father to break their legs and from the mother not to give milk.
If the Qur'anic verses related to this commandment are recited to these claimants of faith in the verses of Allah Almighty, then it does not have the slightest effect on them.
On the side ..... or ...... the lust for marriage ... the lustful .... take care of a quota ... etc. That is to say, one hundred and twenty-two verses. Translation: It is nearing the end of this year for those who have recited our verses to them. The scene begins to unfold.
My reaction is from the Tunisian family and the in-laws are ... In these circumstances, it is obvious that for an ordinary person who does not want to be upset, polygamy becomes difficult and almost impossible for such a person, which is why due to lack of environment and public Due to not being fully aware of the Shariah rule in this regard, even one percent of the people of India and Pakistan may not take this step.
But remember ... Allah Almighty is very wise and none of His commands are free from wisdom, so why more than one marriage is needed? 28
Understand that it is not a mere coincidence that the Shari'ah allows men to have more than one marriage but encourages them.
It is a fact that the Muslims at the collective level of rebellion against this natural command of Allah Almighty are having extremely destructive consequences and today if we follow this important and preferred practice of Shari'ah regarding polygamy these destructive consequences If the family system of Europe is not destroyed, then in the near future, at the individual and collective level of Muslims, there will be a public observation of such deadly consequences of the destruction and ruin of the world of religion that one has to deal with it.
It will not be enough. Daughters born in the generation of scholars and sages will live a life of chastity and chastity. Now just guess from a rational argument that it is well known that first marriage is just a Sunnah practice under normal circumstances and is not obligatory, except if a nation abandons this practice as a nation and except for two or four. For example, 98% of people are convinced that marriage is a Sunnah only by belief and ideology.
Whose only superficial imagination is enough to make the hair stand on end. In these circumstances, if any person who
If he has a passion to save from destruction, by giving incentives and by expending his energies in various ways, he will try to motivate his people to perform the rite of marriage. Why so much energy is being spent ....?
In such a case, it will be said that nature has given full affection to both men and women towards each other, and marriage should not be considered as a defect in the society.
In such a situation, by declaring marriage to be merely a Sunnah according to the pure Shari'ah, wisdom such as chastity and chastity, procreation and maintenance of women, etc., is automatically obtained and marriage is used to compensate for the harms which are intended to be remedied. There is no need to make it obligatory for everyone.
However, if a nation begins to view the practice of marriage as bad in practice and because of the discouragement of the practice of marriage, there is an extraordinary decrease in the tendency of marriage among men, then obviously in this case It will be called "less" and it would not be right to get rid of it by saying that it is only Sunnah ... you are not obligated ... but it is possible that the rulers of this nation if indeed If I am a benefactor of the people, then in order to save the country and the nation from destruction, set regular punishments for those who do not get married Not to be outdone, even if her parents do not agree to the marriage.
In the same way, remember that the command to allow more than one marriage for men, but also the incentive, was revealed for a society where this practice was already encouraged. Why the need for multiple marriages? 29
More marriages are recommended for a nation where it is already customary, so in a society where polygamy is
already customary and there is practically no impediment to this practice, simply declaring polygamy to be a must for men.
A significant number could take this step. And thus all the benefits which the Shari'ah seeks to obtain from this command and to make polygamy obligatory to save the Muslim society from the destruction and ruin from which the Shari'ah seeks to be made obligatory.
Need of Wisdom andBut remember ... in a society where the practice of polygamy is practically viewed with a crooked eye and if a person whose first wife is obedient and submissive, he also has children with his wife.
What good would it be for a person whose wife is supposedly devoid of all or some of the above mentioned attributes to make his life bitter if he intends to remarry only for the sake of Shariah? In order to prevent such a person from having this second marriage, not only the first wife is instructed to be patient, but in case of being unmarried, he also gave some taunts and threats.
This move is strongly discouraged by every section of society, from the government to the few who have already been mentioned. Everybody thinks it's too stupid and doesn't like to think about it at all, except for some other weird and weird kind of people like that. As a result, there are some catastrophes that are a necessary consequence of rebellion against nature.
Therefore, in order to get this small reward, one has to sacrifice this great "wealth" such as "satisfaction" of the heart, and at the expense of "disturbing the family and the first wife", to incite the nation to this Sunnah and It is a foolish thing to spend one's energies in this "wasteful" work ... so to say so and to avoid this command only out of fear of the reaction of the ignorant would be a wise thing to do ...?
Even on this occasion, the answer of a wise person would be that this work is no longer mustahab or sunnah in Shariah, but its status is above sunnah or mustahab, sunnah or mustahab was for the men of that nation in which Let there be a practical practice of this Sunnah. Observing these circumstances, the servant decided that in this regard, as a fulfillment of the duty of enjoining the good and forbidding the evil, he should inform the nation and try his best to persuade those who are in his personal interest to do so.
Apart from this, there is also concern for the betterment of the collective condition of the nation and as the scholars and reformers are devoting their energies to prevent other major denials, by language and pen and by their practical action the nation is on a tradition of polygamy. Why do you need more than one marriage? 30